Sunday, January 24, 2016
Thursday, January 21, 2016
Greetings
There are faucets everywhere that I've been in the Congo, but this is the first faucet that has worked. I looked all over the kitchen for water. Each bucket or trash can held rice or trash. No water. Weird. It took me a second to try the faucet over the sink, and when water came flowing out, I had a moment of culture shock.
Oh yeah, running water.
I've only been in the field for a month, but I've submerged into Congolese culture. Coming out again gives me small stutter steps at odd moments.
Congolese culture, like many other African cultures I have experienced, has a big accent on greetings. Hand shaking and asking how some is doing that day are un-skippable parts of interacting with someone for the first time that day. It is inexcusable to not offer your hand as you greet someone. Or at least very rude. For Muzungus, most Congolese seem to look the other way at our social faux-pas.
Handshaking is not nearly so prevalent in the western world, which I temporarily forgot about one trip back. I was fresh off the plane from Africa, and hurried to a bus station to catch the budget bus to visit friends. The bus was a bit late, but it pulled up to the curb in good order. The harried commuters and other passengers bustled on as I held back. I had a ticket for a later bus, not knowing if travel would go smoothly or not, and I wanted to see if I could change my ticket to this current bus.
When the crowd cleared, I walked up to the driver, stuck my hand out, and looked him in the eye as I shook his hand and asked him how he was doing that day. He was so shocked and surprised that he took a second to answer. That stumbling second brought me back to American culture, where what I did was very old fashioned and formal, probably to the point of embarrassment. All of my American social conventions came flooding back to me, accompanied by the rush of blood to my face. The bus driver was so flattered that, after I explained my request, he didn't even check my ticket, just let me on the bus right then and there.
I forgot about that incident for a while, but the memory resurfaces every now and then. The power of a simple greeting, of grasping a hand and giving someone the time to ask how they are. How that has been forgotten, or left by the wayside. A sacrifice to American efficiency, a relic in the age of online communication, where the only greeting we think about is an email header.
I still don't know if I made a faux-pas or not. I guess it doesn't matter at this point.
Wednesday, January 20, 2016
Arrived
It's the end of the explo. There's not a firm end to point to; instead there's a trickling to a stop.
Is the end when we leave the debriefing meeting with the health authorities of Sandoa? Is it when we pile in the car and drive away? Is it when we meet the Zone Director on the road, coming back from a meeting in the capital, and we say a final goodbye? Is it when we join the other team in the next district over? Or when both teams hit the road in a convoy? Or the end of the debrief meeting in the zone capital? Or the return to our back-base in Lubumbashi? Or the handshake at the end of our group debrief? The moment I press send on the final report? The goodbyes as I head to the airport? The call to turn off electronic devices as the airplane door is sealed and my lungs no longer take in the Congolese air?
Somewhere in there, it was the end of an explo, and the end of a mission. As I shuffle through customs, it hits me. I'm leaving the Congo.
I'll fly to Paris and try to pick up another mission. I'm not ready for vacation at the moment. We shall see where in the world I will be next week.